My Brother “Butch” Earnest Lynn Tucker, passed away a few years ago. I have fond memories of when we were kids and he was the big Brother, I followed him around always wanting to be part of that older crowd. He tolerated me most of the time and taught me how to hunt. In this picture he had just came home from the Air Force along with my Brother-in-law Bobby Carlisle. We always went hunting when we got together as a family. My Mother who was good to take pictures and she took this one. They had come home on leave or had just got out of the service. I can tell by how thin he was.
He was in Thailand during the Vietnam War. They repaired the shot up jets after their mission over Vietnam. It was so hot and humid he lost most of the weight he carried on his bones. I didn’t hardly recognize him when he returned home. We had kept up with each other in during that time by making tapes that were played on a little recorder. It was such a strange thing to me to try to talk to a machine and not the person. He would listen to what everyone had to say and then erase it. He would record what was happening with him and how things were going.
He came back to the farm before I did and was raising a family when I got back to farming. We tried to help each other during the cotton harvest, but I found my calling in the seed business and he put his land in the CRP. He later came back to help me during the summer months with Wildflower harvest. We enjoyed sharing our on opinions on how it should be done. George Autry, who combined for us, said that “we never lacked for opinions, it just never was the same one”. Ferris Locke was part of that so you can see it made for many interesting discussions. We were all sure we were right and each of us just did our on thing. It made for a lot of good memories as it was never a dull moment around us.
He was good to his neighbors and tried to help out where he could. He especially was good the kids that didn’t have animals for the annual shows. He bought some, and gave them away, and others he travelled and helped select the best ones. he didn’t pass away with a lot of money to his name, but I doubt the Lord was interested in that anyway.
My last visit with him was on the phone, and he was disappointed that Social Security had told him he had made too much the year before, so he was going to have to wait another year to retire. I guess he knew some way that if he was going to draw any benefits he needed to get started. It never happened and he worked hard right up to his last day.
He was always willing to help me no matter what kind of idea I had. You really miss that kind of confidence in what you are trying to do. Brothers are always special and especially those who put up with you when you were growing up. Rest in peace Brother I’ll always miss you. John Tucker